Episode 98 – Bear by Marian Engel
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He’s a bear. Like an actual bear. She’s having a midlife crisis. This seems like a pretty extreme response. This is Bear by Marian Engel, which won the Governor General’s Award in 1976 and is evidently the most controversial Canadian novel of all time. Sounds like a skills issue to me.
You know that joke about how you can build a bridge with your bare hands and they don’t call you a bridge builder, and you can saw down a tree and cut it into boards and make these cabinets but they don’t call you a carpenter, but if you fuck one bear… anyway this book is about Lou the bearfucker.
This is, of course, our addition to the discourse on “man or bear?” – if you’ve been living under a rock, there was a whole thing that started on TikTok but ended up in print media of all places about asking women if they’d rather be alone in the woods with a strange man or a strange bear. And then a whole bunch of men on Reddit very handily made it clear why women will pick the damn bear. The entry I found most interesting was this one I mentioned in the episode from a woman who does extreme wilderness bikepacking – worth a read if you haven’t seen it.